How to Start a Mastermind Group. Danielle LaPorte + I Jam on the Power of Your People

The lovely Danielle LaPorte and I hung out recently to jam about the transformative power of masterminds for my upcoming course. Or as Danielle says,

“You need people. You can’t, shouldn’t, couldn’t do it alone. Anywhere worth getting to will take a cast of loving, lucid, masterminds behind you. All the way.

“Everything I’ve accomplished has had mastermind group support — high-minded, big strategy, sleeves-rolled up kind of support. No secrets, soul-bared, nuts and bolts hashing it out. Late nights in living rooms, emergency cellphone calls on street corners. Power advice by texts. Three-day retreats with coloured pens, calendars out and red wine. You get the idea.

“What’s more, not only have my masterminds helped my hurtle myself through space with their genius input, but my capacity to be of service to them has kept me sharp and sincere. Reciprocity is the engine of sustained greatness.

“I’m so passionate about the power of inner circles, I wrote did an entire session on it in THE FIRE STARTER SESSIONS: SUPPORTING CHARACTERS . So when Jen Louden told me she was running a new program simply called, How To Start Your Own Mastermind Group, I applauded. Literally. “Jenny Bee! What a GREAT idea!” Here we are shaking our Masterminding poms poms.”

Here’s some of what we shake our pom-poms about in the video:

  • Recognizing who you love and who sees life through the same lens – don’t settle for less.
  • The power pajama party – with highlighters!
  • Vulnerability vulnerability vulnerability or how much money do you actually make?
  • Why you want a dark and stormy night.
  • Give and receive or the magic can’t flow.
  • What makes a sucky group or why it’s not about deals, networking, or start-up funding.

Enter to win a copy of The FireStarter Sessions (I’m giving away five!) or a seat (gifting two) in my upcoming course How to Create a Mastermind Group.

Two LIVE 90 minute classes (recorded of course) with time for Q & A. Everything I’ve learned since convening our Brain Trust 6 + years ago + all that I’ve learned being in various peer groups for the last 25 years (including writer’s groups and women’s groups) like:

  • Different styles of groups and how to determine what style you want – you might want more than one!
  • Structures — what meeting style and focus works, and what doesn’t; how to handle virtual groups
  • Finding the right people and handling when your group doesn’t gel (our initial group did not) + how to step away from groups that aren’t a good fit for you
  • How to establish trust and intimacy, and why being vulnerable is the secret to a powerful group
  • How to handle competition between members who offer something similar
  • How to recover from disagreements, hurt feelings, and different styles of communication
  • How to refresh as you go along (our group has reinvented yearly)
  • How to bring in new people to an existing group
  • What processes to use to go deeper, especially on retreat
  • Tech details on how to meet (forums, Facebook group, conference services)

AND

Short spicy interviews with:

  • Danielle LaPorte (audio version of the video so you can listen again)
  • Andrea Sher
  • Tanya Geisler + Rachel Cole + Kate Swoboda + Bridge Pilloud + Julie Daley + Jamie Ridler 
  • Fabeku Fatunmise
  • Elizabeth Marshall 
  • Mark Silver + Michele Christensen + Molly Gordon + Michael Bungay Stanier + Eric Klein (my group)

AND

  • Facebook group to connect with like-minded people to form your group.
  • A Self-assessment Criteria to fill out for what you want in a group.

May 22nd & May 29th
4 pm Pacific / 7 pm Eastern
calls recorded of course

To win a book (I’ll be giving 5 copies away sent directly from Amazon) or a spot in the class (if you’ve already registered, we will cheerfully refund your money) just

a Rafflecopter giveaway

  • http://twitter.com/MagnoliasWest Sue Kearney

    Okay, I’m trying to play, but I don’t understand how to paste in the tweet URL. Help! Every time I click on the How do I find it? I go to a page that has nothing to do with your offer, which I would really really like to win, thank you!

    • Jen Louden

       i just asked for help Sue but I think it works if you just hit enter… help coming though to be sure.

      • http://www.ethicallaunch.com/ stacy

        Hi Sue! To enter the tweet URL, you’ll want to go to the tweet you sent and mouse over it. You’ll see a time in the upper right hand corner – click on that. Then, you’ll see the URL in the address bar of the tweet. Copy + paste that into the box. :) Here are photo instructions if you learn better that way :)
        http://www.rafflecopter.com/rafl/instructions-tweetlink/

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=595137657 Deb Reynolds

    fingers crossed! Blog post coming up…..

  • http://www.BackToPaper.com/ Linda Tieu

    Thanks for the chance! I have the book and devoured it! Would love a spot in your class :)

  • tisha

    Love, love the book too!  Eager to watch your interview above…and would love a spot in your class! ;)

  • Paula – Buenos Aires

    I love my local community. That being said, I haven´t been able to form a local art/business tribe. I think I haven´t been asking the right questions, in a place this big there must be some “same wavelenght” women. :) The “more than one group” concept totally git my attention. I´d love to know more about the mastermind groups.

  • http://www.facebook.com/zazazu Karen Beth Martin

    Super cool… THANKS!

  • nes

    have heard amazing things about this book. 

  • jenlouden

    Kathryn I wonder if it got a bunch of entries at once? I just clicked enter on one choice and it took it. I’m having Stacy look at it too to see if we can offer any more help. Sorry for the slow down, no fun!

  • Eva

    I am in a Mastermind Group of 5 women. We meet weekly on Wednesday evenings from 8-10 PM. The core 3 women have been in meeting for 2 years. I have been a member for one year. We, amazing women, are full of love and support for each other. The transformation in each of our lives is miraculous. We love experiencing first hand the absolute unfolding of possibility.

  • http://twitter.com/brandyglows Brandy Walker

    Oh man, this is inspiring! I’m already making a list of who I want to invite in my group. I kind of needed this today. You ladies blow me away with your brilliance. Thank you for this video and for the contest. Shalom!

  • Susan

    When  two or more are gathered in my name.  Such a powerful way to have others hold you in your brilliance, talents, goals and accountability.   we all so need this level of support, and thank you for providing such an amazing venue to get this on line for me! Thank you so much!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1560005430 Cindy Moneta

    I am soooo stuck, with a kazillion creative thoughts and nothing concrete to show.  I am bombarded daily with inspirations, ideas, workshops, writings, plans, etc. Sadly these all remain unrealized in my head. I gotta tell you that it is getting overcrowded up there and I need some space!!! No wonder I suffer from CRS disease. Meanwhile I have created, re-created and collaged the most marvelous flower gardens, cleaned out closets and drawers multiple times, potted and re-potted plants, dug and bordered sidewalk trenches, arranged and re-arranged my deck, walked my pooch so much that  she now hides upon seeing the leash…don’tcha just get my drift? I am growing more desperate to get back into my studio, which is just table in my beebee home. I know, I know, practice what I preach and Just Do It! But here I am, typing instead of coloring. Me thinks this MasterMind Group is just what I need to create or join. A MasterMind group that appeals to visual artists who also connect writing and spiritual inspiration (spiritual is loosely defined) I know that all of the meaningful information and inspiration you all have to offer a writing group would work for a visual artist group as my own writing informs my art and vice versa.  My Muse could use some musefully musings:-) Know what I mean jelly bean?

  • http://www.ethicallaunch.com/ stacy

     Kathryn, did it work for you? Just wanted to check in and make sure. Either way, we’ll make sure that you get entered, so no worries! :)

  • Tracy_verdugo

    Hi Jen! I would soooooo love to win a spot in this class! I have always been a solo entrepreneur and yet there is a deep longing in me for community. I yearn for the sharing and support that you describe but am really cringing at the thought of showing my vulnerability…I’m ready to be brave….

  • DeborahJ

    “Pick me! Pick me!”, says my heart.
    “Oh, dear-y you. Not worthy. Not ready.”, says my head.
    Just what this girl needs – a sharing, caring community. Thanks for the gift!

    • jenlouden

      you top that not worthy stuff right this minute – and i will too! :)  

  • Sidney McGaffigan

    I’m looking for a Mastermind group and would love the opportunity to win a chance to join yours. However, I can’t get to  the submission form. I’ve tried 3 times and it keeps clocking. Please help!

    • jenlouden

       Hi Sidney, the site that is doing the contest is having slowness due to submissions so come back in just a bit, okay? Sorry!!!

    • http://www.ethicallaunch.com/ stacy

       Hi Sidney! Did the submission go through? It seems to have calmed down now, so the widget should be working faster. If it doesn’t work, let us know by posting here, and we’ll make sure you have a chance to win! :)

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  • Sopranorenca

    Mastermind Group your way to increased creativity and support with others that are making a huge difference in everyday living.

  • Nicole

    I love, love, love this interview – thank you!  Nicole x

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  • http://www.gabbingwithgrace.com/ Grace at {Gabbing with Grace}

    the course sounds ah-may-zing.  Kudos for creating it! 

  • Mysteriabella

    This video made me want to cry.
    I have been so isolated recently and have no idea how to get with a group or start  one. I don’t know how I have arrived at this place.