The Smell of Books or TeachNow Round-Up!

My first teaching experience was pulling my mom’s college textbooks down from the top of the hall closet and “teaching” my dolls whatever it was I thought I was “reading.”  I can still smell mom’s books and feel the excitement my memory pairs with that smell: the excitement of something previously hidden opening to me. [...]

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Are Expectations Killing You?

Hi Dear Heart, I recorded a spontaneous video today — without good lighting or even lipstick (which when you’ve been raised in the south by a beautiful belle is a strangely big deal) to make a heart-point about how expectations may be squashing your happiness and stopping you. Spend 2 minutes with me and use [...]

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Me & Marie Forleo

Marie Forleo’s B-school hits today with a bang. It’s a video-based training program that teaches online marketing strategies to women business owners who want more sales and more impact from their online presence. When I first encountered Marie’s Rich, Happy & Hot brand, I wasn’t sure it was a fit for me. Did I have [...]

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Stop Giving Away the Store

I’m giving myself a big long chocolate-scented hug because I just caught myself giving away my store again. Which is something I will not allow myself to do anymore. No ma’am, I will not. Did you know that giving away your store (aka over-providing, over-giving, giving it all away) hobbles you from inviting the ease [...]

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The Beauty of Losing

I have lost and it’s a beautiful thing. Lost what? You will, of course, ask. Lost the need to know. All my life I have been a spiritual seeker. My spiritual autobiography highlights include: Methodist Sunday school, Baptist church (at 12, on my own, without my family), Catholic mass with my best friend Course in Miracles, [...]

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On Being Lonely

Lonely. It’s a forlorn word. It’s not the same as being alone – which is often so delicious – and it doesn’t just happen when you are alone – you can be lonely, as it is said, in a crowd. In a city. At a party. Lonely. It comes up often in my conversations with [...]

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